Sunday, August 19, 2012

Florence Study Abroad Life Tips

I cannot believe it was a year ago I was preparing myself for leaving for a semester in Florence, it feels like ages ago and yet at the same time just yesterday it all happened. Anyways, I have a few friends that are leaving to study abroad in Florence this fall and I know they are freaking out a bit so I want to give back any advice, tips, or just any general knowledge I learned from my semester abroad (though definitely not any Italian... mi dispiace)

Before I start of on any abroad thoughts here is my #1 tip from studying abroad in Firenze:
THE COUNTRY OF ITALY RANDOMLY HAS TRANSPORTATION STRIKES!
Be prepared to know when they are being planned ahead of time (because Italians plan and post the strikes online) so you do not run into the issue like my friends and me dealt with on our trip back from Paris and being stranded in Pisa. I do not know how I was not informed of this fact before I left but I would have been the most useful to know.

Moving on! (Though expect A LOT of sidenotes throughout this)

Packing: Say it with me... I will be okay with the fact I will wear the same 7-10 outfits for the next 4 months. Im serious. 
General tips:
- Do not pack flip flops or sandals (aside from $2 Old Navy ones to use as shower shoes), the entire city is cobblestone and you will learn that REAL quickly.

-BUY SPACE BAGS! Go to Target and get the kind you can roll out the air. They will literally be your saviors for studying abroad. Saved me tremendous amounts of space in my luggage and backpack.

-Accept repeat outfits. I traveled to London and Ireland for a week and space bagged that week and a half into one regular sized backpack. Am I wearing the same 4 outfits all throughout all my London/Ireland photos? Yes, but who cares. You gotta do what you gotta do.

-Bring plain clothing (now I don't mean boring I mean simple). This is just easier because of the simple fact you will be repeating clothing and mixing and matching solid color shirts is helpful.

-Bring one or two pairs of jeans MAX. No one will notice or care you haven't washed your jeans in two weeks, everyone will be doing it.

-There are no driers in Florence. I repeat.. NO DRIERS! Everything will have to air dry, be aware of this.

-Bring bulk of things you will want the whole time you are abroad (AKA: get the largest size bottle of shampoo, body wash, contact solution, shaving cream etc you want) This is helpful because it will probably save you money, you won't worry about the products you are using, and these are all items you can toss before you go home so more space for all the gifts you bought while abroad. BRING EXTRA DEODORANT Italy doesn't have any.

-Buy PRACTICAL gifts/t-shirts/items. You will want to buy next to everything you see but be cautious in your purchases please. Buy the type of clothes you will be proud to wear for years to come. Do not buy the tacky touritsy Italia bullshit items. Be prepared if you are traveling someplace you will have room for that item coming back. I wore legitimately seven outfits coming home from Ireland, but hey I have a killer Ireland rugby and many other clutch lifelong purchases to prove I was there.

-If your parents or someone from America decides to visit you while you are abroad... have them take a huge portion of your clothes and gifts home with them. You may think some items are necessary, but take everything you think you need and cut that in half. No joke. You do not want to end up being that girl who brought and bought far too much abroad and will have to pay hundreds of extra euros for not packing lightly.

-Do not bring anything you are extremely attached to or would be devastated if you lost. Worst case scenarios could happen to you. Your luggage could get lost, or you could spill red wine on your shirt and be one shirt down one week into abroad like I did. Accept the uncertainty of living abroad and traveling.

-Weigh your luggage before you leave and wear your heaviest clothing on the plane ride over. That means just deal with the fact its late August / early september heat and wear layers and your heaviest shoes. Just do it.

-Don't bring pens, paper, school supplies with you over. Buy them in the Tutto 99 cent store. Everyone at your school will have the damn 99 cent notebook with the random Polar Bear or Tiger on it, it is socially acceptable. Plus you won't want to bring any of your school stuff home with you, so this helps you feel less compelled to.

-Your program will most likely give you a ton of info and things on Florence, including your lifeline type of map of the city so do not feel the need to buy one before you go.


Florence: The city is extremely beautiful and cultured (a bit dirty but you get past that) and has a ton of restaurants and places to shop (though not about to recommend going to Fendi or Gucci on an abroad budget). I definitely recommend going to the shops and store that are the hole in the wall types of places. The closer you get to the Duomo the more expensive everything gets, damn tourists.

Speaking of tourists: there are A LOT of tourists that frequent Florence. The first month or so you are there it is still high travel season, but I promise it will die down a bit and then start to pick up more right before you leave, but you will learn to ignore them. I definitely recommend listing to your iPod on your way to class. Personally, I found it extremely useful because then you don't instantly look like a lost tourist and it gives you an excuse to not care about photobombing the hundreds of photos you inevitably will do as you're trying to get to class. Not to mention, it really is a nice distraction to enjoy some music, I found it comforting to just get into your own zone while walking around. The amount of times I listened to "Good  Life" while walking past the Duomo and loved life was a ton.

Gypsies: You will learn to be a complete bitch to people while studying abroad. I know this sounds very harsh, but it is so true. The amount of people that will try to shove fliers (I'm looking at you Fish Pub and Bus to Alps employees) and gypsies that will get all up in your personal space, all I can say is ignore them and do not feel bad about it AT ALL. Every city you visit will have hawkers and you will have to be mean to them otherwise you'll be euros down. 

Mosquitos: Window screens do not exist in Florence. Get the bug spray plug ins for your apartment, just pay the expense for it you will not regret it. It gets hot and you will want the windows to be open during the night.

Piazzale Michelangelo: GO HERE THE FIRST WEEK YOU ARE IN FLORENCE and literally just sit there and enjoy the views of Florence, it will change your life. Your perspective on life will actually be altered from this view, or at least it did for me. Your life is put into perspective when you go here on top of Florence over looking the city and the Arno River. Go here, watch the sunset, maybe get gelato before or after you go. Life is so not real life abroad that you cannot even imagine its actually happening, all the more so when you get back that it even happened, but this view will forever be engrained in my mind. Go here multiple times and then a few more times after that. Bring friends.

The Duomo (aka the North Star of Florence): If you are lost, go to the Duomo and find your way home. It is difficult to navigate but once you find your paths it makes life easier, but no doubt that first month or so utilize the Duomo to help navigate. Climb the Duomo, but save it for maybe when some of your friends are visiting you in Florence because then its a great way to experience something new for yourself and for them to experience Florence as well. I did this with 2 visiting friends and my Florence friends and it was amazing for us all. Best 8 euro I ever spent.

Giotto's Bell Tower: Climb to the top of this as well. 6 euro and it's so worth it because you get to actually see an amazing vantage point looking at Florence and the Duomo. I would recommend waiting until maybe November or December to do this because tourist season will be down and also do this on a random Sunday morning. I did that and the 4 of us that went had practically the whole tower to ourselves. Plus you'll walk past this and the Duomo daily so you'll never forget that you still need to climb it.

Food: Your eating habits post Italy will be forever ruined, accept it now. Nothing will EVER compare. You will have some of the best meals with your program no doubt, from my experience I will be honest I did not go out to eat a ton while in Florence, partly because I could not afford it and because I knew I would have to when I traveled to other countries but I still enjoyed Florence food so much. 

Random thoughts about food: Honestly drink the frizzante water, it is so good I miss it. ALWAYS get the house wine it is cheaper. I hate wine but I still learned a ton about it in Italy (Rome had the best in my opinion) and GSE took us on a fantastic wine tasting day in Chianti. Wine is cheaper than water so learn to like it. I tried profusely to be its friend, but I just do not like that taste of it but i'm weird and I am sure you will befriend wine 24/7.

Places you HAVE to go to:
Acqua al due: pricy, GSE took us for our final meal here so check if you're with that program. 

il Pizzaiuolo: This is where Chiara (program director who was our savior and AMAZING) took us randomly on a Sunday. Without a doubt one of the best pizzas I will ever have in my entire life.

Gusta Pizza: Okay I do not even care this is a massive American abroaders destination. The pizza was so cheap and SO DAMN GOOD. Go here anytime a friend visits. Actually go here at least once every 2 weeks. Im serious.

McDonalds: I'm being 100% serious about this. You do not realize how nice it is to taste something from home, even if it is deep fried. Especially on long travel days.

Find a hole in the wall Aperitivo restaurant: Aperitivo is worth it. It's buffet style Italian food with 1 drink for a flat price. Early on a bunch of us randomly went to one we walked past all the time on Via San Gallo and it was amazing.

ZaZa: It was a hotspot for my friends Faith and Jenna who helped prep me for Florence as they studied the year before me. The restaurant menu is in Italian or in English (bonus points) and the food is GOOD here, even if you just got the 6 euro plain pasta with sauce... the best. I would recommend going here once in the first month and or when friends visit. Its a good place to start to transition before going to more legitimate Italian restaurants.


Restaurants and places to eat in general in Italy and abroad: there will be an extra charge for sitting down especially in places near anything famous. Be aware of this.

Aside from all the amazing food you will eat out for, go to the markets and grocery stores and cook for yourself! You will save hundreds by doing this. Make families meals with friends if you are inclined to do so, but even just buying your own food you know how much you are spending. Suck it up and eat a lot of 1 euro pasta, you will never be able to study abroad ever again in your life so live it up, but be responsible about it too because food is within your control to save money on especially while in Florence. (Sidenote tip: grocery stores have plastic gloves to put on before you touch any produce and then after you do this you will have to weigh the fruit/veggies on a scale and get an exact price sticker for the food.. just be aware). Also, you will not find practically any brands you will recognize, get past it and get what is cheap, but yes splurge for the occasional Twix or Pringles if you are homesick. 

Money Sidenote: I would also recommend do not eat only one meal a day! I hard trouble in my adjustment and stressed myself out to the point I only ate one meal a day the first few weeks. DON'T DO THIS. As much as this was a hard thing for me to realize, you will spend pretty much your entire savings, but its BEYOND worth it. I tried budgeting my money early on but that stressed me out so harshly I stopped and just enjoyed life only weekly checking out how much I was spending and not nitpicking every purchase, but to each their own. All in all, even if you have to eat practically only pasta for a month like I did (which most students didn't, I was extreme) you can do it. You will figure out how to budget to get what you want out of Florence and Europe, I wanted to travel so I sacrificed having diverse grocery options. 

Travel: I traveled to Paris, London, all around Ireland, Cannes/Nice, and around Italy (Pisa, Lucca, Venice, Rome, Cinque Terre, Perugia). Most of the Italy travels were with my program and aside from that using trains from the Firenze SMN train station (10-15 min walk from the center of Florence) and Ryan Air (and honestly do not take anyone "horror" stories from Ryan Air seriously, I flew Ryan Air leaving from Pisa every time I traveled (except AirFrance for Cannes/Nice).

Use websites like RyanAir and Hostel World. Plan out your trips. Leave room for spontaneity for sure, but don't be stupid. Research hostels if you need to and I am sure you will find great ones (but recommend never staying at one that had below a 90% cleanliness rating... just saying).

Take the train from Florence to Pisa to travel. Use Firenze Santa Maria Novella train station for all your train travels. There is one that easily goes to Pisa Aeroporto. Ryan Air flies to and from Pisa, its a cheap train ticket to and from Florence and flying from Pisa saves you SO MUCH. With regards to Ryan Air or any flight service, PLAN YOUR TRAVELS WITHIN THE FIRST TWO WEEKS YOU ARE ABROAD! You will save tremendously by booking ahead of time. Most websites get more expensive the lesser the seats get available. I had a bit of difficulty trying to coordinate with some of my friends and I regret not trying to be more active in planning earlier because it would have saved me so much money. You get your schedule for classes, you get your travel schedule with your program, and you know which places you want to visit and which friends you want to visit so amidst your culture shock, just do it anyways do not wait, you'll pay for it... literally. Go to your program's travels because 1. they are mostly free 2. you may go to someplace you would never expect to and it may be your favorite place ever (Cinque Terre for me). 3. unless it is a day event that is in Florence, you can always do those on your own.

This is one of my biggest tips for studying abroad and its probably the main reason I choose Florence, TRAVEL ALL THE TIME. You will never be this young and this active in your life. You will do things like steal toilet paper from hotels to save euros, but you do it anyways because any problem or struggle you face abroad is life experience you can't every trade for anything. See as many places as you humanly can because you genuinely will never be able to travel all around Europe and visit other friends and stay on their floor and actually live life to the fullest. Florence is in a great European location because it makes it super easy to travel accessibly within Italy and to other European countries. My top three (if I even could narrow it down) places I highly recommend traveling to from Florence are Paris, London, and Rome. Now I do not care what anyone says about these three being massive tourist destinations. You will find love in any city you visit, but for me the French culture/food is incomparable and the Eiffel Tower is life changingly breathtaking, the London atmosphere, sight seeing, and to be fair the addition of English language back into your life will be much needed, and Rome is massive and has so much to offer to see and do. But if you want more travel destination opinions and advice, just ask me! I could write 5,000 more words about each place I visited easily.

Gelato (set aside a budget for this, it's worth the impulse buying): I had three favorite gelato places in Florence. Go to Grom, screw the fact it is an Italian chain because it was the first gelato I ever had and will always be the best tasting (not to mention the way they make it and store it honestly does make it taste better). Some flavors are seasonal there, you can get two flavors in one cup (but you can pretty much do that for any gelato selling establishment). Grom is right near the Duomo hidden down a side street, just do it. Other places: Gelatissimo, If you are walking to the Ponte Vecchio from the Duomo direction it's right before the bridge to the right. It has a rewards card program (obviously you cant pass up free gelato) and if the cute girl that always worked there is still there she wuld punch extra holes in the rewards card all the time. Plus the portions are MASSIVE here. Festival del Gelato: I actually did a business psychology project about this store for one of my classes, its closer to Piazza Repubblica (the one with the carousel) and probably has the most options of any place I can remember. Please try the gelato cinque cereal (5 cereals), sounds random but it was really good. FLAVORS: Tiramisu you cannot ever go wrong with, try the fruit ones too Rasperry, LEMON, Apple, do not ignore them just because it's not technically gelato.

I'll write another post with other tips, especially where to go out, but I wanted to give you all this as soon as I could!

Friday, December 16, 2011

KILLING ME SOFTLY, AND I'M STILL FALLING

On the LAST day left abroading, Europe gave to me...


#17- GELATO
#16- ABROAD SONGS
#15- PERSISTENT HAWKERS

#14- ITALIAN WEATHER
#13- ABROAD CONSTANTS
#12- #STUDYABROADPROBLEMS
#11- OLD STOVE PORCELLINO
#10- 3,991 MILES
#9- PARIS, FRANCE
#8- APPRECIATION OF WHAT'S TO COME
#7- MEETING UP WITH ABROAD FRIENDS
#6- BEING COMPLETELY SINGLE
#5- BAD TRAVEL KARMA
#4- CHIARA
#3- MY CLASSES
#2- FIRENZE FRIENDS


#1- THE DUOMO


Sort of anti-climactic but whatevs it's the damn truth. Florence would mean NOTHING without the Duomo. It is the North Star of the city that helped me survive those first few weeks of being directionally challenged. It is a true wonder with size and how it stand the test of time. Climbing it was one of my favorite things that I got to do here. I'll expand on this post when I arrive back in AMERICA. Still have a little last minute packing to do... typical me.



It's true love.


Last sight of the Duomo.



Giant buildings I got to pass by multiple times on a daily basis I will truly miss this.

ALL AROUND THE WORLD

more like just Europe, but I was thinking of all of the incredible places I have had the privilege of seeing while I am abroad, and one who's always down for ranking things I thought I'd recap my travels in order of favoritism.


PLACES I HAVE BEEN WHILE ABROAD
Florence
Pisa
Lucca
Paris
Cinque Terre
Perugia
London
Galway
Aran Islands
Cliffs of Moher
Connemara
Cork/Blarney
San Gimignano
Castello di Verrazzano Wine Tasting
Prato
Venice
Cannes/Nice
Rome


IN ORDER OF FAVORITES
18. Prato
17. San Gimignano
16. Connemara
15. Perugia
14. Pisa
13. Cork/Blarney
12. Castello di Verrazzano Wine Tasting
11. Aran Islands
10. Lucca
9. Galway
8. Cannes/Nice
7. Venice
6. Rome
5. London
4. Cinque Terre
3. Cliffs of Moher
2. Paris
1. Florence


Never thought I'd have Firenze at the top, but it was good I came to Florence. It pushed me into growing so much more as a person that I could have ever imagined. I walked around the city yesterday and today (and will continue to while I am still here) and just took it all in as much as I possible could.

THERE'S NOTHING BETWEEN US BUT SPACE AND TIME

On the 2nd day left abroading, Europe gave to me...


#17- GELATO
#16- ABROAD SONGS
#15- PERSISTENT HAWKERS

#14- ITALIAN WEATHER
#13- ABROAD CONSTANTS
#12- #STUDYABROADPROBLEMS
#11- OLD STOVE PORCELLINO
#10- 3,991 MILES
#9- PARIS, FRANCE
#8- APPRECIATION OF WHAT'S TO COME
#7- MEETING UP WITH ABROAD FRIENDS
#6- BEING COMPLETELY SINGLE
#5- BAD TRAVEL KARMA
#4- CHIARA
#3- MY CLASSES


#2- FIRENZE FRIENDS


This experience would be nothing without the friends that made those unforgettable life changing moments while abroad. I came over with a few good friends, but I made friendships with some amazing people and who I had never known before coming here and I wonder if I would have ever become friends with them at Stonehill if they did not study abroad here too... probably not which I think is a pretty cool thing. Whether is was the San Gallo girls that I was already friends with or Jess who I didn't know at all until I came here (and she is one of the NICEST and FUNNIEST person I have ever met no doubt), or Kat being utterly ridiculous in our art class or outside it, whether it was anyone who came to join in Tijuana Thursdays, Keefer being Keefer (like going to Rome without anything... only he would), or Katie and Jade who I CANNOT WAIT to hangout with back at Stonehill cause I know the good times will only continue there. Overall I can't even remember how many times I died laughing at the ridiculous abroad stuff that has happened to us all. Abroad life is unreal and I am glad I have so many friends to share my experiences with and laugh about all the memories we had for years to come.


HIGHLIGHTS (just the first several that come to mind)
-Katie bitching some rando Italian out in Red Garter on Halloween, "WHERE THE HELL ARE MY EARS!?"
-Courtney shattering her wine bottle that she just bought and making it rain wine
-Anytime Katie was in a photo, she needed to be on her good side haha
-Jade being the mapquest of Florence
-Kat and Alex during the Yankee swap
-The pub crawl night where we got COMPLETELY lost in Florence til 3 am and it was a hot mess of a night, but now have a great anecdote out of it
-Lengel.. guys its actually leaning!
-Pretty much anytime we went to Old Stove Porcellino, Club 21 (the night Katie/Jade/Melissa and I went was a major highlight with the drunk Spaniards and the super biddie), Twice or any of the other random places we went out to
-Courtney kicking her leg up and clapping underneath her legs as if no one was going to notice
-Anytime we were traveling and Ali and I were the Amazring Race duo leading the group
-All the free GSE dinners in the places we travelled to
-THE HORRIBLE WALKING TOURS
-Any interaction we had with Antonio at the Old Stove Porcellino
-Standing in front of the Leaning Tower of Pisa...what should we do.... LETS JUMP!
-Anytime it required me to say "This is not real life"


Just to name a few, regardless Firenze would mean nothing if I didn't have such amazing people to share it with

Thursday, December 15, 2011

On the 3rd day left abroading, Europe gave to me...


#17- GELATO
#16- ABROAD SONGS
#15- PERSISTENT HAWKERS

#14- ITALIAN WEATHER
#13- ABROAD CONSTANTS
#12- #STUDYABROADPROBLEMS
#11- OLD STOVE PORCELLINO
#10- 3,991 MILES
#9- PARIS, FRANCE
#8- APPRECIATION OF WHAT'S TO COME
#7- MEETING UP WITH ABROAD FRIENDS
#6- BEING COMPLETELY SINGLE
#5- BAD TRAVEL KARMA
#4- CHIARA

#3- MY CLASSES

If I did not have the classes I had here in Florence I do not know how I would have made it the first few weeks. I genuinely loved most if not all of my classes this semester. Definitely could not have got any of them back at Stonehill which was a main reason for me decided to studying in Italy.

Every class was different and great in their own right. Italian would have SUCKED if I did not have crazy Daniele as a professor. He told us to friend him on facebook and then proceeded to give us all his phone number and told us to meet him at Old Stove Duomo later last night. He's insane and made that class so much fun despite the fact I cannot stand the Italian language and find it utterly useless, even "needing" it in Firenze. My art class (token male) was a little ridiculous with the nude models but it pushed me artistically throughout the semester. I hate portraits and drawing people, I'm not particularly good at it (give me a still life anyday) but I think I got better. My graphics class (token male) was sort of a joke but with the two visits and getting some serious insight to "the creative process" was nice. My art history (token male) class was definitely my hardest class but the fact we went to a church almost every other week as a visit made the class so much more interesting and fun. I would have never gone to those places if it was not for that class and I got to see some really cool art/architecture/etc. Of course I don't need to talk anymore about how much my business psychology class made a massive impact on me and my professor for that class was incredible and unlike any professor I have ever had or think I ever will have again. It was a perfect class for where I am in my life right now and how I want to continue it. 

Even with the 96 step trek to the top of Strozzi all my classes were well worth the experiences and last minute cramming. Were classes abroad a joke where I didn't even have to do half the work I do back home? Yes, but that's sort of the point of studying abroad. My priorities were not with my classes but that doesn't mean they still didn't push me and give me more experience. Though my motivation for classes is shot and it's going to be a roughhhhh next semester (especially with publication design and 3 business classes... thank god (the one i don't believe in) that I at least have a "fun" class AIDS & emerging infections with a few of my friends). 

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

I THINK I NEED A BARBER, NONE OF THESE __ CAN FADE ME

On the 4th day left abroading, Europe gave to me... (okay it's a day late but I was studying for finals)


#17- GELATO
#16- ABROAD SONGS
#15- PERSISTENT HAWKERS

#14- ITALIAN WEATHER
#13- ABROAD CONSTANTS
#12- #STUDYABROADPROBLEMS
#11- OLD STOVE PORCELLINO
#10- 3,991 MILES
#9- PARIS, FRANCE
#8- APPRECIATION OF WHAT'S TO COME
#7- MEETING UP WITH ABROAD FRIENDS
#6- BEING COMPLETELY SINGLE
#5- BAD TRAVEL KARMA

#4- CHIARA

So I've obviously talked about my amazing GSE program advisor Chiara here before. To be honest, I was pisssssed that Stonehill switched away from API (a proven good program that I had already pretty much filled out half the application for) during last winter break, and typical #stonehillproblems the office of international programing (student ambassador vernacular whattup) doesn't tell us this until it's no longer convenient. Same school abroad, different program. For starters I was pissed that I was going to be among the guinea pigs to test out this new program, which clearly was only because it must be cheaper considering Florence has the highest number of Stonehill students studying abroad than any other destination.

So when I find out that legitimately half of the program is Stonehill students (who mind you Stonehill made sure we were all housed together....pissed bout that too) I was less than excited. I would have hated GSE if it was not for Chiara and Martina (the other advisor that goes on all our our excursions with us). They are uber helpful and Chiara is the sweetest little thing. She was always so happy and checking in with us constantly, and if something was wrong or not going perfectly she'd apologize when it never even was her fault. Her humor and knowledge was the most appreciated and without out her I know I would have been lost. Not to mention the fact that she made sure the excursions with the program were amazing, which they were, well aside from all the walking tours.... soooo many walking tours and bad tour guides.


UPDATE: just posted by Chiara on the GSE Florence page, it's precious:
"Ciao a tutti! I can not believe that it is almost time for you to go :( if some of you are free tomorrow for dinner, I would love to meet up, we can just go for a pizza, nothing fancy, it would be just nice to spend some time together!"

ME AND MY BOO IN MY BOO BOO RIDIN'

On the 5th day left abroading, Europe gave to me... (okay it's a day late but I was studying for finals)


#17- GELATO
#16- ABROAD SONGS
#15- PERSISTENT HAWKERS

#14- ITALIAN WEATHER
#13- ABROAD CONSTANTS
#12- #STUDYABROADPROBLEMS
#11- OLD STOVE PORCELLINO
#10- 3,991 MILES
#9- PARIS, FRANCE
#8- APPRECIATION OF WHAT'S TO COME
#7- MEETING UP WITH ABROAD FRIENDS
#6- BEING COMPLETELY SINGLE

#5- BAD TRAVEL KARMA

I have without a doubt learned from abroad that I never want to do the Amazing Race. I can successfully cross that off my list of reality shows I wish to be on. I've learned how much I hate the process of traveling. I love seeing new places, but with my luck it never seems to go according to plan.. ever.

The worst travel snafu was DEFINITELY getting stranded in Pisa. I have major angst towards Pisa. Pisa shit (say it slowly). You'd think people who studied abroad in Italia would have told us that there is casual transportation strikes often? Nope, so we learned the hard way coming back from Paris. After a Paris metro to a bus back to the airport to a flight back to pisa to take the train from the Pisa airport to the stop at Pisa Centrale to switch trains to get back to Firenze SMN... oh wait on a Sunday night at 9:00 all of the train workers strike in Italy? Ohhh no not all of them just 10% of the train workers decided to stop working that night and we happened to be on one. Your train has been delayed for 30 minutes.... for 1 hours.... your train has been delayed 16 hours.. um what says the obnoxious sounding lady on the loud speaker? You say 16 hours... screw this I'm getting McDonalds.


We then had the pleasure of dealing with rude Italians that were less than helpful and met up with 3 girls from BU having the same problem trying to get to Florence, but even together it was futile. We frantically call our advisor Chiara who gets back to us and tells us to get on a city bus back to the airport to then take a bus back to Florence. So we flail around the Pisa train station trying to figure out which bus to take, finally find it and then prepare ourselves to BOOK it as if we were on the Amazing Race to catch a bus back. In retrospect this was pointless cause the ryanair buses go 24 hours a day, but it was a ROUGH day of traveling and a few of the girls could not handle it all. Ironically enough right before I left for Paris my business psych class I had a lesson learning about how to act in situations and how you can only control how your react, can't control what you're dealt with. This mindset was perfect for me who is someone that worries about EVERYTHING, but I think aside from some culture shock anger that still permeated on me I handled it the best way I could, level headed. We'd eventually get home so crying or bitching about the situation was pointless. There was nothing we did wrong, traveling just sucks.


Add this to my ridiculous plane travels with AirFrance to Cannes and pretty much ever using a Florence transportation system, traveling is not my friend. I'm not going to try to be friends with traveling, but it made me a stronger person able to adapt quickly to situations that are out of my control.

Monday, December 12, 2011

I WAS HERE. I LIVED, I LOVED.

On the 6th day left abroading, Europe gave to me...


#17- GELATO
#16- ABROAD SONGS
#15- PERSISTENT HAWKERS

#14- ITALIAN WEATHER
#13- ABROAD CONSTANTS
#12- #STUDYABROADPROBLEMS
#11- OLD STOVE PORCELLINO
#10- 3,991 MILES
#9- PARIS, FRANCE
#8- APPRECIATION OF WHAT'S TO COME
#7- MEETING UP WITH ABROAD FRIENDS

#6- BEING COMPLETELY SINGLE

Okay so I spent some time writing what I personally would have deemed a comical take on a very serious topic (there even was a it's britney... bitch joke), but half way through I realized I'm not half as funny as I think I am and this actually is an extremely influential reason for my growth as a person while abroad so I should leave a serious blogpost.

No need to rehash the past here, the past is in the past and I've learned from it. Truth and time tells all. That being said, I stepped on my plane August 29th?..30th?... wow I can't even remember what day I left it's been that long, anyways, with no reservations, no expectations, and no regrets ahead of me. I always wanted my abroad experience to focus on myself, but I never realized how much I truly needed it. I needed to get back to me and figure out what I want from life. I needed to stop thinking about myself in regards to others and their perceptions of me, I can't control how someone acts I can only control how I react.

Abroad life pretty much forced me to be void of all forms of not being alone, and I'm grateful for it. The issues of the fact that I am nearly 4,000 miles away from home, in a SUPER conservative country, in an even more conservative city, in a country I speak none of the language (still don't just ask me how to say strawberry in Italian...), and how I left with zero strings attached were obvious. Now fast forward to London (epic fail...twice), France (didn't have time to go out in Paris, then was in the gay capital of France Cannes and the cards just didn't work out not that Melissa didn't try and wasn't PISSED about it), and then Rome (blah). Nothing seemed to be in my favor which is something I have grown used to being gay, but this is no "im playing the victim card" bull cause I don't play those games I am just stating facts. 

The fact of the matter is I have spent the past 3 and a half months only focusing my attention on me. Yeah did I slip up a few times in the beginning caring too much about life back at Stonehill? Yes, it's a process. Rome wasn't built in a day (been there, done that). I have always thought the process of being broken down is healthy and makes a person stronger, and being abroad is one giant slap in the face of life. Being complete single while abroad has made me appreciate my friendships so much more. I have found the strength within myself that if I have to wait until I graduate Stonehill or even years after that, I genuinely feel I can because when I least expect it that person will make himself known. Never settle. Life is too damn short to not live your life to the fullest with people who care.

I'm assertive enough to know I deserve a Meredith Grey, someone who will make a ridiculous house out of candles, a Friends With Benefits Justin Timberlake to do a completely unrealistic flashmob to Closing Time, an Aaron Samuels to laugh at the fact I am a complete dork that would say grool (fun fact that actor from Mean Girls is gay in real life), I deserve Penn Badgley in Easy A. I'm so beyond aware of myself as a person now that you probably think I have a huge head, false. I am just a hell of a lot more confident about myself, and you should be about yourself too.

I've just begun (having my fun).

Now I discovered this about a week ago, since then I've been listening to Beyonce's album 4 pretty much nonstop since, but I think this is the type of mindset I know have about myself. I can acknowledge what I have accomplished thus far and what I want to accomplish for myself and the others I surround myself with. Enjoy the live version because it's so much better. 

The lyrics to the chorus resonate with my feelings about my abroad experience. I did so damn much while abroad and persevered through it all. Everything I wanted out of this experience I got, and then some. Were there things left undone and places I did not get to go to? Yes, but looking back and what I thought I could afford to get done I am amazed and the places I have seen, the people I have met, and the genuine life goals I have accomplish.

"I was here...
I lived, I loved
I was here...
I did, I've done everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be."

So yes, I was here. I was a lot of places, but this will only continue back in America even more so. I don't view myself as an "abroad dave" who will go back into his norms and routines back at Stonehill because that for damn sure is not going to happen. Dave 3.0 is wiser, more mature, more independent, more patient, more outgoing, more reserved, more self aware, more appreciative, and will soon be 21 so if you are expecting the David who left in August stepping off that Swiss Air plane in Boston this weekend, good luck finding him.


"I Was Here"
I wanna leave my footprints on the sands of time
Know there was something that, and something that I left behind
When I leave this world, I'll leave no regrets
Leave something to remember, so they won't forget

I was here...
I lived, I loved
I was here...
I did, I've done everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be
I will leave my mark so everyone will know
I was here...

I want to say I lived each day, until I died
I know that I had something in, somebody's life
The hearts I have touched, will be the proof that I lived
That I made a difference, and this world will see

I was here...
I lived, I loved
I was here...
I did, I've done everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be
I will leave my mark so everyone will know
I was here...

I was here...
I lived, I loved
I was here...
I did, I've done everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be
I will leave my mark so everyone will know
I was here...

I just want them to know
That I gave my all, did my best
Brought someone to happiness
Left this world a little better just because...

I was here...

I was here...
I lived, I loved
I was here...
I did, I've done everything that I wanted
And it was more than I thought it would be
I wanna leave my mark so everyone will know
I was here...
I lived (I lived), I loved
I was here...
I did (I did), I've done
I was here
I lived (I lived), I loved (I loved)
I was here... (oh)
I did, I've done

I was here...